Caterpillar Spirit
  • Home
  • LEARN
  • Solutions
    • Integral Global Leadership Development ™
    • Communicating Across Cultures
    • Culturally Correct English
    • Business Across Borders
    • Global Skill Building
    • Culture Coach >
      • Programs
      • Log-In
    • Expatriation & Repatriation >
      • Log-In
  • Contact

BLOG
CULTURE BUMPS

Understanding Coaching: What it is and what it isn't

29/7/2015

 
When we first start working with a new coaching client, we spend time defining what coaching is and what it isn't. There is quite a bit of confusion out there. If you're unsure yourself, here a quick overview. 

Coaching & Therapy – therapy focuses on feelings and experiences related to past events. Coaching focuses on the present and the future. Coaching encourages the client to move forward. A therapist normally works with dysfunctional people to get them to a functional state. Therapists works with individuals who need to become emotionally healthy. Therapists deal with past issues and how to overcome them.  Coaching is where the client is right now, where they want to be next and how to get them there. It is important to know when a client needs therapy and not coaching.

Coaching & Consulting – consulting and consultants tend to provide advice. The coach provides the space for the client to discover their own solution and their own answer. Coaches do not provide the answers. The client does; the coach guides them. A consultant is a specialist in one area and provides solutions. Coaches are not specialists in one area – they don’t need to be as they are not experts in finding the answer for the client – this is the work of the client. Coaching is a holistic approach. The coach has the questions that allow the client to find their own answers and clarify their values.

Coaching & Counselor - A counselor provides information and expertise. The relationship is typically hierarchical – a parent /child for example. It is based on the past and focuses on fixing a problem. Coaching relationships are future based, action oriented and not hierarchical. The coach and client partner together. The coach and client walk side by side.  

Coaching & Mentoring - A mentee establishes a relationship with an expert in the field. Mentors are usually older and have more experienced and specialized in their field. It is more of a teacher / student relationship – learning takes place from the teacher to student. The student looks up to the mentor for information and guidance. Coaching is a partnership. Clients draw on their own wisdom and follow their own guidance to meet their goals.

Learn more about our coaching programs here. Or send us a short note with your questions and interest.

Deciding what to 'do' next: Maybe Nothing?

22/7/2015

 
Three questions which are sometimes helpful *in the moment* in deciding if and how to move forward with a particular issue:

1. What?
  • What is going on? 
  • What is happening? 
  • Try to be simply descriptive and non-judgmental.


2. So what?
  • So what does that mean for you, if anything? 
  • Does this have true meaning, true significance? 
  • Or is it your ego, your expectations, your head getting to you?


3. Now what? 
  • What are you going to do about it, if anything? 
  • What will make you feel better, less stress, more at ease with and accepting of the situation?

    Get culture bumps
    in your mailbox.

    Enter your email address:

    Delivered by FeedBurner

    RSS Feed

    Archives

    August 2018
    February 2018
    January 2018
    December 2015
    November 2015
    October 2015
    September 2015
    August 2015
    July 2015
    March 2015
    January 2015
    November 2014
    August 2014
    July 2014
    June 2014
    May 2014
    April 2014
    March 2014

    Categories

    All
    Healthy
    Leading
    Living
    Working

    Picture

    writers

    Jamie Müller
    Roland Müller

Our Services
Culture Coach™
Expatriation & Repatriation
Communicating Across Cultures
Developing Global Teams
Integral Global Team Development (IGLD)™
Global Skill Building

Our Company
About
Contact
Blog

Impressum
Picture
Copyright © 2022 / Caterpillar Spirit / Heidelberger Strasse 70 / 69151 Neckargemünd-Waldshilbach / Germany  / +49 (0) 172 75 71 479 info(at)caterpillarspirit.com
Developing Cultural Fluency & Intelligence
  • Home
  • LEARN
  • Solutions
    • Integral Global Leadership Development ™
    • Communicating Across Cultures
    • Culturally Correct English
    • Business Across Borders
    • Global Skill Building
    • Culture Coach >
      • Programs
      • Log-In
    • Expatriation & Repatriation >
      • Log-In
  • Contact